Tuesday, May 6, 2008

Why the title-Life is a Journey?

I have been wanting to start a blog for a couple months now. A few old friends have them and I enjoy reading them so I can keep up with their families. Being a military family, we move often. So keeping in touch with friends and family is hard.

A second reason for blogging is because I am not good about keeping a journal. The last time I remember being consistent with a journal was after having my first child, Eric who is now 10. I remember feeling overwhelmed and not knowing what to do when he'd cry. I would write down about my day and that helped me release all the tension I was feeling.

So, I wanted a blog, but had no idea what to call my blog. I remembered a quote from the Prophet Gordon B. Hinckley that I really liked. "Life is to be enjoyed, not just endured." It made me stop and think about how much I am just trying to endure each day. I shouldn't be counting down the hours until my four kids go to bed or until they leave me for college and missions. I need to enjoy every single hour with them. I have been blessed to be a stay at home mom. My husband would give anything to be able to spend the hours with the kids that I get to. But he has to provide a living for our family. So I shouldn't take this time for granted.


Fortunately for me, I have a very supportive husband. He often tells me that he would rather come home to a messy home than a clean one if it means I have taken the kids to the park, to the pool, for a bike ride, read them lots of books, or have done the reading lessons with my twins. He tells me that I will have years after they leave to clean the house. I need to enjoy every moment with them now, while they are young.

So, that is why I chose the title and quote. Life is a journey, a journey that I need to sit back and enjoy more often. I need to cherish every stage of their lives. I look at pictures when my older two were smaller and sometimes miss those days. I don't want to look back with any regrets.

I am going to try to enjoy my journey more!

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Hi again Terri,
Will make this brief until I see if it goes through.
So pleased you found such an outstanding piano teacher that the kids are happy with.
I love your title; and so happy that you are realizing what is really impt. in life at your young age. The kids will never remember how clean your house was. What do you remember most? Love ya's, G-ma, Polly