Today is Erin's 17th birthday. I kind of dreaded this day because July was so hard. I started to wish her birthday was in July too so maybe I could do most of my crying in one month. But August hasn't been as hard as I thought. So that is good.
How to celebrate her birthday now was a question I had for the last couple weeks. Last year we were driving from Florida to Nebraska on her birthday so we visited her grave and ate Oreos and chocolate brownies I think. We attempted to sing Happy Birthday to her in the hotel room that night. That was an epic fail and just resulted in a lot of crying. So I knew that wasn't going to happen again.
This year, I decided just to honor her by doing her favorite things. I started the morning with a run/walk at Walnut Creek. She loved running that lake.
Then the boys and I headed up to The Open Dooor Mission which serves lunch and dinner to the homeless. The boys and I helped bag lots of sack lunches for them to deliver to the homeless on the streets. That was so rewarding. We loved our time serving. That was Erin's favorite place to volunteer so I thought that would be appropriate.
After our service project, we headed to Jason's Deli and Zach ordered one of Erin's favorite meals there, a huge baked potato.
Then we went swimming at Melody Theobald's pool because Erin loved swimming with friends there.
We went home and had one of Erin's favorite meals, homemade chicken pot pie. Then we headed to Orange Leaf for some dessert. Erin always begged me to take her to Orange Leaf.
The boys left for a temple trip after dessert and I dropped Eric off at home so he could do his homework. I came to Halleck Park to swing on Erin's favorite swings. She rode her bike to this park often to just swing and climb trees. I didn't attempt the climbing trees.
After swinging for a few minutes, I drove over to the duck pond and sat on Erin's bench and reflected on all the love of her friends who purchased this bench in her memory. She is blessed with many wonderful people who love her.
We miss you Erin! We hope we made you proud today. We love you and look forward to a joyous reunion one day!