Nathan's Advice

While Mario was up decorating the boys' room today he decided to fix their closet door. Zachary was doing a lot of talking while Mario and Nathan were working. Mario looked at Zachary to give him a "dirty" look and Nathan told Zach, "Less noise, more work."

Nathan was adapting a common phrase of Mario's that he says often at dinner, "Less talking, more eating."

Boarding School

Does anyone know of a good boarding school for two almost 6-year-old boys? Do they have a twin discount? I can tolerate my boys separated in public places, but not together. I took them to the local bank the other day to open an account. I don't know if they have ever been in a bank before since I do almost all online banking with banks in Texas and Utah. Apparently, they confused the bank with a park. Then I took them to the grocery store yesterday where they climbed under the display tables. Again, they must have confused the store with a zoo. Then today I took them to a baptism (which they are fully aware of how to behave in church.) They must think that because it is not Sunday, they don't have to behave in the chapel. After the baptism we went to the library. That was a mistake.

I have concluded that I have not done a good job with teaching these boys how to behave in public places. But to my defense, they are perfect children when they are separated. I don't know what happens to them when they are together. They forget how to act civilized. Erin is at the point that she doesn't even want twins anymore.

Is spanking legal? They both need a good swat!

Deployment Part 2

Well after much prayer, Mario has decided not to pursue the deployment to Ecuador in March. He kept telling me that he didn't feel it was the right time to go and that after praying the answer he got was that we need to trust in the Lord. As much as I wanted him to volunteer for a Latin America deployment, I also knew this morning that it wasn't the right time. I always worry that he will have to go to the desert, and who knows, maybe he will someday. But Mario's right, we just need to have faith and put our trust in the Lord and everything will work out. So looks like for now Mario will be sticking around. I am not ready to be a single parent anyway. Problem is, I am not sure I will ever be ready...but I also know that Heavenly Father will help make me strong when the time comes.

San Diego

Our family just returned from our vacation to San Diego late last night. We stayed in a cabin on the beach at Camp Pendleton for 4 nights. There are some great benefits to being military... like all the discounted military cabins we have stayed at in the past (Honolulu, Kauai, Big Island, and Lake of the Ozarks.) We invited some friends, the Trawick family, from Monterey to meet us there. We also invited my mom meet us in San Diego. We had adjoining cabins which was really convenient.

I had begun to dread this vacation because in the past our kids have complained about some of our vacations not being as fun as they had hoped. So I had planned to cancel all future vacations if they complained even once about this vacation. But they all had a great time. I think I had the most fun being back on the beach and boogie boarding. I can't believe that I lived in Hawaii 3 years and didn't try boogie boarding until right before we left. I don't think there are many activities that I enjoy more than boogie boarding. I tried surfing, but that was way too much work.

We left about 6:30 Monday morning. We stopped at least 4 times on the way to San Diego, the last stop was to an outlet mall on an Indian Reservation just outside of San Diego. We had a couple hours until my mom's flight arrived. Once we picked up my mom, we headed to our cabin. After checking in, I went to the commissary while Grandma, Mario, and the kids played at the beach. When I went to pay, I realized I had forgotten my wallet. I had to leave my cart and drive all the way back to the cabin to get my wallet. Fortunately they didn't put back all my groceries. I had just listened to a conference talk on Attitude, so although I was completely frustrated with the situation, I tried to have a good attitude. Then on Tuesday, Lisa and I drove all over the large Marine Base looking for wax for the surfboard that the kids never really used (again I had to remember the talk on attitude). After getting the wax, it was time to relax and boogie board.

On Wednesday, Eric was able to go to the San Diego Temple and do baptisms for a Samoan family and 6 of Mario's family members. It was a wonderful experience to be at the Temple with Eric for his first time. It made me anxious for the time he goes for his own endowments. But then of course that makes me sad because he will be leaving for his mission. After the Temple, we returned to the beach to do more boogie boarding. Thursday, Mario and I got up early to go to the Temple and to breakfast. Then we spent the day boogie boarding. My mom finally got up the courage to get into that approx. 65 degree water and try boogie boarding. I think she actually really enjoyed it. She was disappointed she had waited so long to try it. Now she is hoping that they will have some storms on the Gulf Coast of Florida so she can try it there where the water is much warmer (Florida's Gulf is very flat normally).

Friday was time to pack up and leave, but not without a little more boogie boarding. I was out at 8 am. Then Mario dropped my mom and I off at the Temple to do a session and some Sealings. He took the kids to the San Diego zoo because he and the three younger kids were free. After the zoo, Mario picked us up and we went to Old Town for some Mexican food and then had to take my mom to the airport and we had to drive all the way home. We wanted to stay until Saturday, but decided to go home late Friday night so we would be home in time for General Conference.

It was a great trip. We are again grateful for my mom coming out and helping with the kids while we went to the Temple and for cooking and cleaning and for taking the kids for long walks on the beach. She and Zachary went for several long walks, their longest was over 3 hours. Zachary really enjoyed his time with Grandma. If I had my way, we would be going back to San Diego several times a year. It was almost like being back in Hawaii. But Mario insists there are other things to see. I am not so sure.

I will have to post pictures when I get some from Lisa and my mom. I didn't bring my camera.

Deployment

Mario is putting in for a 6 month deployment to Ecuador in March. Who wants to come out for a visit while he is gone? We could go do something fun like a cruise, hike Grand Canyon, or lay out on the sandy beaches in San Diego.

Mario's only requirement is that I don't spend all the extra deployment money. We need it to buy a retirement home. Darn! :)

Mario's shrinking clothes

Well, it finally happened. Mario is starting to have to watch what he eats. He is trying to blame my washer and dryer for shrinking his clothes, but it might have more to do with Erin's good cooking. She makes her daddy cinnamon rolls, no bake cookies, chocolate chip cookies, biscuits, etc.

Not that I want Mario to gain weight or have to watch what he eats. But it is nice that he sees how the rest of us live. He said last night that "at least I've had a good run." He had 37+ years of eating whatever he wanted without thinking about gaining an ounce. Maybe it's going to be harder to talk him into another cruise if he knows he can't eat six times a day at the buffet.

BTW, I am not in implying that Mario is fat. He is 6'2", weighs under 180, and is totally ripped. I can't keep my hands off him.

Buzz

We love our dog, Buzz who has been part of our family almost as long as Erin. When we PCS'd to Guam, we had to give away our cat because of the high cost ($1400) of quarantine. We were all sad to say goodbye to Kramer. We tried to get the kids a fish in Guam, but a fish really isn't the same. So after a month or so, we visited the local animal shelter where we found Buzz. We were on our way to the mall and I asked Mario if we could just stop and "look" at the dogs. He knew better. But he let us stop anyway and after a couple hours of begging, he let us adopt Buzz (named after Buzz Lightyear). Buzz has been the best, but expensive dog. With moving all over, we have had to quarantine him in Hawaii (we weren't about to get rid of another pet due to quarantines) and we have had to pay for a couple overseas flights for him. He became a big part of our family.

I remember Erin falling asleep next to him when she was one. I remember taking Buzz out with us trick or treating and him being so excited that we almost had to take him home. Even now with him being almost 10 years old, he gets so excited about a walk. People often see how "puppy-like" he is when we are out walking and they think he is a puppy. We have to spell "walk" in our house or you will get him so excited he won't leave you alone until you take him. I remember the twins sitting in their little chairs on the floor eating their food and throwing Buzz half of it. We miss Buzz so much when we are on vacation and he is not with us to clean up any mess left on the floor from the kids eating. I remember lots of 3-5 mile runs with Buzz in Guam, Hawaii, and IL. Once when we were doing a 4 mile run, I felt so good when I got to the turn to go home, I decided to do it again. Buzz wasn't so happy about it, but he made it. I remember living in Guam and being so scared after the terrorist attacks because Mario was gone at night. But with Buzz, I knew everything was fine. As long as he wasn't barking, no one was inside or outside our home. He has always brought me a lot of peace when Mario is away.

Whenever we go on a trip, Buzz gets really sad. Whenever we pull the suitcases down from the closets, he will start whining. It is amazing because he knows when we get them out, even when we have the bedroom door closed. It breaks my heart. Mario likes to tease Buzz and say "Suitcases, we are getting our suitcases Buzz."

We are going to San Diego next week, so I got out the suitcase and started packing the twins clothes. Buzz was all the way downstairs and so there was no way he could see the suitcase, but he knew I was packing. When I came out of the twins room, he was standing on the staircase whining. He hardly ever goes on the stairs except when Zachary brings him up. I am trying to figure out how he knows about the suitcases. I didn't even unzip it today because it was already open.

We love Buzz and we don't know how much longer he will be part of the family. He has one bad knee and the vet said he will most likely injure the other side soon (most dogs do within 2-3 years of first injury.) I asked her if we would have to put him down once he isn't able to get up on his own anymore and she said, "oh, no." She said there are lots of medications she can give him that are similar to our Motrin. He will have to take pills everyday but he will not have any pain, so as long as he's happy and doing well, we can keep him. She estimated another 4 or 5 years at least. So that was really good news. We'll keep our fingers crossed.

We love you Buzz!